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HOW TO FIND WHAT YOU ARE GOOD AT!!!!!!!!!!!




ALL THAT YOU NEED IS TO SEE THE INTENTIONS OF THE WRITER AND INTENSITY OF THE WRITING WHEN YOU PICK.


I am seeing a lot of things these days around me which I use to hate thinking of but sort of make lot of sense now. There is clarity in my mission towards my vision.

Everyone around me told me that if I am in the field which I am good at, I will be successful. But no one till this time gave a clarity of how to find out what I am good at. Don’t ever think I never asked anyone, because I did, directly to most of them. But you know what’s the answer I get “you should find out yourself .“  

I said OK let’s find out, started trying out different things failed, fallen several times stud up again and kept moving. But I realized the path I took led me nowhere because most of my friends are being successful, even the once who lost hope on their lives moved ahead of me by time, and to my surprise I still don’t know what I was doing.

One day around all this mess, I was thinking and there was an American TV series ‘SHARK TANK’ running in the background, Mark Cubens uttered few words in that show that day and suddenly everything is as if it’s all sorted out for me and brought in the unsolved mystery I had for all these years which is ‘There are many people successful in what I am trying out, why am I a failure, where am I going wrong?’

The words Mark Cubens said were: “I am not good in using your product personally, it might be a great business Idea but I as a person should know and like what I am investing in. It’s not always the money. I am out”.  

I was shocked to see him miss such a great opportunity which would earn him millions just for damn silly reason. I kept thinking of these lines whole night and came to a bottom line.

This brings me to the core point of why I am writing this whole story:
Your success is directly proportional to how much you know about yourself.

Let me elaborate, if you know yourself very well then you know exactly what you are good at and what your bad at and that gives you an answer for the biggest question of what you are good at. Knowing what you are good at boosts up the phase of success in your career 100 times faster. Be very open to yourself and write down what you are good at and what you are not, do a strength- weakness analysis in a most honest possible way you can and you will exactly know what you should avoid and what you can do wonders with. Once you know what you are good at, just believe it and keep pushing yourself in that area, I am sure you will be shocked to see the energy that you get while your doing that as I am experiencing it literally right now. Knowing yourself is the key.
                
Anyone can give a lectures like this, right!! But I am not anyone who just speak or write and doesn’t follow, because I am your friend a normal person just figuring out the ways in life as the days pass by and sharing it with you guys so that it might help at least one of your lives better and easier. I am following what I said as I post this article, I may fail again, who knows but at least I have a clear vision and direction now and I would never move backward hence forth.


Yours ………. Ruthwik.

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